Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders
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Even a device that is light, snug and fully comfortable can make its wearer more vulnerable to sporting injury. If his fantasy is one you can enjoy too, then by all means indulge him occasionally, if you so choose.
You might find it better to defer enjoying him fully until he’s calmed down a little, and thus able to offer you his full sexual attention for as long as you desire.As a couple, you may discover that male chastity brings a new closeness and a re-kindling of desire that you had perhaps thought left behind with your dating/courtship days. Next time you see a movie poster featuring a leather-clad, tight-laced, spikeheeled Goddess (and you don’t have to look too far for such things nowadays), check out the male passersby – and watch their heads turn. To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. If he wants you to flog him, or to dress him up as a ‘sissy maid’ or as an overgrown baby, and if the idea leaves you cold – what do you do? Make no mistake: holding a man’s key is a gift, and one that requires significant time and attention from a loving keyholder.
Some couples who practice male chastity use prostate massage to regularly ‘flush’ the man’s reproductive system, the idea being that his can help counter any long-term health risks. Im Gegensatz zu Anleitungen und Texten im Internet geht es hierbei wirklich um die Keuschhaltung und nicht um erotische Geschichten.A blow to the testicles is bad news for a man at any time, if those testicles are trapped against metal or plastic when they are struck then it will be much, much worse. Feel free to tell him to put his pants back on, to zip up, and to get on with his day – while you get on with yours.
They keener your man is on the idea of you becoming his keyholder, the more cooperative he will be and the easier you will both find the process. Because women are trained to a more nurturing role, there’s an excellent chance that you’re more aware of his needs than he is of yours (or your family’s), and that he spends less time focusing on you and more on his other goals (such as his work). If enforced male chastity is to be an everyday part of your lives from now on, then you don’t have to make a big deal about his new condition – it’s supposed to be normal, isn’t it? If the device hurts him then something is wrong; you don’t want him enduring something that might end up damage him. Seek out reviews of the model you have in mind; ask questions of the manufacturer (and of other users you encounter in on-line forums) and don’t get your credit card out until you are certain.
This book is for consenting adults who recognize that the adult activities they enjoy in private require correspondingly adult levels of responsibility and common sense.
Alternatively, if you wish to reassure him, you could touch or fondly whatever is reachable (which might just be the enclosing metal or plastic at this point) and tell him that you’ll miss his penis and wish it wasn’t necessary to keep it confined for so long (but that it’s for his own good). They might be fine for occasional play or experimentation, but don’t expect them to be suitable for extended use, or to be as well-designed, attractive and robust as the high-end models. It is a serious matter that requires your love, time, attention and care, as described later in this book.
What you may not realize is that a surprisingly large number of apparently traditional men are submissive at heart. After all, you surely have one or two things that you wouldn’t want to share with him… Almost all men masturbate, even when they’re involved in a committed relationship. So male masturbation is perfectly normal, and as long as it’s not excessive or compulsive, it shouldn’t have a direct impact on your relationship. Or will you read the rest of the book, waiting until you’ve had the chance to absorb its contents before responding. He can go through life silent and ashamed, keeping his submissive nature secret and never sharing this important aspect of his sexuality with his lover.